Dying: A Memoir
Cory Taylor
One of President Barack Obama’s top ten reads of 2017
Cory Taylor wrote this remarkable book in the space of a few weeks before her death from cancer in July 2016. In a tremendous creative surge, as her body weakened, she described the experience of knowing she would soon die.
Her powerful and beautifully written book is a clear-eyed account of the tangle of her feelings, her reflections on her life, her memories of the lives and deaths of her parents. She tells us why it was important to her to have the ability to choose the circumstances of her death.
Dying: A Memoir is a breathtaking book about vulnerability and strength, courage and humility, anger and acceptance. It is a deeply affecting meditation on dying, but it is also a funny and wise tribute to life.
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‘The book rings louder in my imagination the more time I spend apart from it, a kind of reverse Doppler effect. Dying is bracing and beautiful, possessed of an extraordinary intellectual and moral rigor. Every medical student should read it. Every human should read it. My own copy is so aggressively underlined it looks like a composition notebook.’
‘This is a powerful, poignant and lucid last testament, at once an eloquent plea for autonomy in death, and an evocation of the joys, sorrows and sheer unpredictability and precariousness of life. Taylor wonders if she has found the ‘right tone’ for her story. Her readers will find that she has. It’s a fine contribution to our much-needed dialogue with death.’
‘Cory Taylor’s book is both a precise and moving memoir about the randomness of family, and an admirable intellectual response to the randomness of life and death. We should all hope for as vivid a looking-back, and as cogent a looking-forward, when we reach the end ourselves.’
‘This small, powerful book offers a clean engagement with life’s conclusion: with clarity and courage, the author finds words to escort us towards silence.’
‘Funny, insightful and, most of all, consoling. It does what all great writing does: makes you instantly feel less alone. It’s the best thing I’ve read this year.’
‘It takes courage to contemplate one’s death and extraordinary clarity and generosity to write about it like this. Dying: A Memoir is a gift to us all, a book that is not afraid to navigate darkness and that sees us through to the end…We need books like this, a guide to dying, but also, and especially, a guide to living.’
‘A fine and sorrowful finale.’
‘[Taylor] commands a glorious structure and control. She arrives at “the edge of the words” and in her final paragraphs performs an alchemical transformation of her book’s imagery and metaphors and moments into something light and quite transcendent — the whole not only surpassing the sum of its parts but illuminating them with a magnificent blaze.’
‘Dying is a powerful, passionate, unflinching memoir about facing death and the choices and difficulty and beauty that entails. It should be required reading for all of us.’
‘A clear analysis of the dying process and another important contribution to the debate about drug assisted euthanasia… [Taylor’s] memoir offers as much insight and reflection as anyone could deliver in just 150 pages.’
‘Taylor’s challenging, touching, sad story about her dying, is a eulogic tribute to her immense talent, but one that leaves practical comfort to us all.’
‘Along with the precision of her writing, it is Taylor’s lack of self-righteousness that lends this book its very special quality.’
‘2016 has seen the publication of a number of exceptional books by beautiful writers whose poignant tales takes us right to the edge of the abyss.’
‘It takes courage to contemplate one’s death and extraordinary clarity and generosity to write about it like this. Dying: A Memoir is a gift to us all, a book that is not afraid to navigate darkness and that sees us through to the end…We need books like this, a guide to dying, but also, and especially, a guide to living.’
‘Brave and funny, rare and honest.’
